Monday, July 14, 2014

Men & Women?

Are men and women really made for each other? What makes them to feel so connected at one time and feel so distant at a different time?

A man gives it all to the relationship and trying to make his partner happy in everything. But the woman has a different perspective for everything and she sees the world in a differently from a man. She expects him to be loving, caring, understanding, devoted, respecting, validating and reassured all the time. The man gives this all, but in his own ways, in a man's perspective, which is not understood by a woman. Man's intention is to make his partner happy, he'd do anything to make her happy, but he doesn't know how exactly he could achieve that.

Striking a balance between the differences is the key for a happy relationship. The man comes from a different world say 'Mars' and woman comes from 'Venus'. Their worlds work in different ways and they communicate differently. Most of the issues of in any relationships happen due to miss-communication or non-communication. It is important to communicate the right message at the right time, it's going to bite you if you let go of the opportunity to express yourself.

Men and women are bound to be together and its the nature's arrangement, they need to stay together in spite of the differences. Expecting your partner to be a exact copy of yourself is impossible and its very cruel to not let them have different choices or preferences. There may be some common interests, likewise you should also be aware of the differences. You need to be ready to accept the differences the same way you welcome the similarities. Men seem to adopt to the situation quicker than women in evolving to the situation, unlike women who have many expectations and feel devastated when their expectations are not fulfilled.

Conflicts in a relationship is very common, but resolution is the key to sustain the relationship. Every relationship would have issues, successful partners are the ones who knows to handle the issues better. Staying in the relationship and finding a resolution would be the smartest move. Both partners should make efforts to understand better and to find resolutions to the problem. Breaking up the relationship is not going to solve anything, even if you find a different partner you can expect similar or even more issues, it should be considered only as the last option.

Your happiness is in your hands alone and you should take responsibilities for your actions. The more you give, the more you will receive. Express your love unconditionally and you will be rewarded according to your deeds.

Thursday, January 16, 2014

My very first blog & post!

I had been wondering what to blog, should I blog, etc. Let me just start it first and see, than keep wondering about it. I would like to express myself on this blog, use this as my scribble pad. We all have something to scribble in the last page of our school notebooks, I used to doodle something when I'm in a boring lecture, most of the lectures were boring to me, so my notebooks were mostly filled with something other than the subject.

Initiation is the biggest step in doing any task, duty or activity. It applies to anything, like doing a task at your work, doing an exercise, your household chores, expressing your feelings to your loved one, talking to a stranger, asking for help, you can correlate it to anything. We like to postpone everything and we love to be lazy, we always enjoy that extra few minutes sleep after we put off the alarm. Any big or small task you just need few seconds of courage to take that decision to start it, these few seconds could change everything. The saying "Anything well started is half done" is really true. 

I'd like to use this as a vent to my express myself, hoping that this would help me stress out in someway. I don't have to worry about what someone would think of me, this is my space and I have the right to be what I am and how I want to be. Thank you blogger.