Are men and women really made for each other? What makes them to feel so connected at one time and feel so distant at a different time?
A man gives it all to the relationship and trying to make his partner happy in everything. But the woman has a different perspective for everything and she sees the world in a differently from a man. She expects him to be loving, caring, understanding, devoted, respecting, validating and reassured all the time. The man gives this all, but in his own ways, in a man's perspective, which is not understood by a woman. Man's intention is to make his partner happy, he'd do anything to make her happy, but he doesn't know how exactly he could achieve that.
Striking a balance between the differences is the key for a happy relationship. The man comes from a different world say 'Mars' and woman comes from 'Venus'. Their worlds work in different ways and they communicate differently. Most of the issues of in any relationships happen due to miss-communication or non-communication. It is important to communicate the right message at the right time, it's going to bite you if you let go of the opportunity to express yourself.
Men and women are bound to be together and its the nature's arrangement, they need to stay together in spite of the differences. Expecting your partner to be a exact copy of yourself is impossible and its very cruel to not let them have different choices or preferences. There may be some common interests, likewise you should also be aware of the differences. You need to be ready to accept the differences the same way you welcome the similarities. Men seem to adopt to the situation quicker than women in evolving to the situation, unlike women who have many expectations and feel devastated when their expectations are not fulfilled.
Conflicts in a relationship is very common, but resolution is the key to sustain the relationship. Every relationship would have issues, successful partners are the ones who knows to handle the issues better. Staying in the relationship and finding a resolution would be the smartest move. Both partners should make efforts to understand better and to find resolutions to the problem. Breaking up the relationship is not going to solve anything, even if you find a different partner you can expect similar or even more issues, it should be considered only as the last option.
Your happiness is in your hands alone and you should take responsibilities for your actions. The more you give, the more you will receive. Express your love unconditionally and you will be rewarded according to your deeds.
A man gives it all to the relationship and trying to make his partner happy in everything. But the woman has a different perspective for everything and she sees the world in a differently from a man. She expects him to be loving, caring, understanding, devoted, respecting, validating and reassured all the time. The man gives this all, but in his own ways, in a man's perspective, which is not understood by a woman. Man's intention is to make his partner happy, he'd do anything to make her happy, but he doesn't know how exactly he could achieve that.
Striking a balance between the differences is the key for a happy relationship. The man comes from a different world say 'Mars' and woman comes from 'Venus'. Their worlds work in different ways and they communicate differently. Most of the issues of in any relationships happen due to miss-communication or non-communication. It is important to communicate the right message at the right time, it's going to bite you if you let go of the opportunity to express yourself.
Men and women are bound to be together and its the nature's arrangement, they need to stay together in spite of the differences. Expecting your partner to be a exact copy of yourself is impossible and its very cruel to not let them have different choices or preferences. There may be some common interests, likewise you should also be aware of the differences. You need to be ready to accept the differences the same way you welcome the similarities. Men seem to adopt to the situation quicker than women in evolving to the situation, unlike women who have many expectations and feel devastated when their expectations are not fulfilled.
Conflicts in a relationship is very common, but resolution is the key to sustain the relationship. Every relationship would have issues, successful partners are the ones who knows to handle the issues better. Staying in the relationship and finding a resolution would be the smartest move. Both partners should make efforts to understand better and to find resolutions to the problem. Breaking up the relationship is not going to solve anything, even if you find a different partner you can expect similar or even more issues, it should be considered only as the last option.
Your happiness is in your hands alone and you should take responsibilities for your actions. The more you give, the more you will receive. Express your love unconditionally and you will be rewarded according to your deeds.
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